Archive for January, 2009

January 30th, 2009

Katie Got Her Ears Pierced

Just kidding! But I made you look, and fast, didn’t I!?! Hehehe

Katie was digging through a drawer last night and found some of my old clip-on earrings from high school days. Back when I went to dances, had big hair & wore big earrings. Gotta love the 80s.

She was excited that I could actually put these on her instead of giving the usual response “your ears aren’t pierced, sweetie.” It didn’t take long before she asked me to take them off her because they hurt. Aaaah yes. She doesn’t know yet the pain we will go through for what we feel is beauty.

What do you think? Are these a bit much for her to wear to preschool? ;-)

January 26th, 2009

One of These Shoes is Not Like The Other

Yea! She’s all healed! Katie got the ok from her orthopedic doctor to take her boot cast off and resume normal activity. She can’t do gymnastics for another two & a half weeks. (Mommy is nervous about that one. The doc said “mommy needs to get over it.” Dang doc!) Oh and she’s all better from her tonsillectomy too.

The funny thing is comparing her shoes. One has 3 weeks more wear than the other… And it’s obvious which one. LOL

January 23rd, 2009

Three Piggy Opera

Ok. So here it is… Several of you knew about this and have been nagging me to post. It took me this long because a) we’ve been so busy, and b) I want to be sure to cover the whole story.

Two weeks ago we got a notice in William’s backpack inviting us to a sneak preview of “The Three Piggy Opera” presented by The Kindergarteners the following Thursday at noon. Three days later, as Chris was walking William home from school, William goes on & on about this play.

I question him about it at dinner. Asked if he had a part in this play. He said yes… he was a wolf. As any adult knows, there is only one wolf in this story. But as a parent of a young child in school I am aware of the fact they try to make everything fair… even overly “fair” sometimes at the expense of our children not learning some of the ever-present life disappointments & how to deal with them. When I ask how many wolves there are in this play, our son’s priceless response was “one”… with the clear understanding it was meant to be followed by “duh mom.” He matter-of-factly says, “I got the part because I know the whole story already.”

At this point my mind is flooded with thoughts. I had no idea they actually take theatre class in elementary school, let alone Kindergarten. If he’s been attending this, why is this the first we’ve heard of it? My son, the one who is shy around even people he knows, has a part in the play??? Hind sight tells me this may be why he got the part, but still. I’m proud.

“WILLIAM… THIS IS THE LEAD ROLE!” Hind sight also tells me I shouldn’t have told him that or shown so much excitement at what he had accomplished. The next week as he was watching people audition on American Idol with me… it sets in. He has stage fright. He begins bawling because, as he puts it, “it’s just getting closer and closer.” He also explains to me his displeasure in having to play a character that has a mean face. (I can hear the female reader “awwwws” at this point.)

I was searching and searching for something to say to calm him down and put his mind at ease. I told him that when I was a little girl and my Kindergarten (ok, it wasn’t Kindergarten but the details escape me)… I didn’t get the role I wanted in a play. This is where he starts to interrogate me. “What play?” “Who got the part?” “Why didn’t you get it?” I apparently answered these questions to his liking and he calmed down.

Chris showed up that day with the video camera. Grandma and I sat watching proudly. The play went off… with a few hitches… When the first house was blown down (it’s a tri-fold thing) William’s finger got caught in it. He cried and the teacher had to stop the play and comfort him for a little bit. That and a few boys getting time-out during the play made it memorable. The funny thing is that although the kids were “dressed” in their appropriate costumes… they really all sang all of the parts. William, as the wolf, looked funny making movements and singing “not by the hair of my chinny chin chin.” But his “solo” part that everyone joined in on has been stuck in my head for over a week. I wish I could put the video on here, but we cannot blog other people’s children. So you’ll have to settle for the lyrics and a photo of the proud wolf.

I want a big, fat pig to eat.
I want a big, fat pig to eat.
I want a big, fat pig to eat.
Yummy, yummy, yummy, yummy
…mmmmm mmmmm mmmm mmmmm.

His other line was, of course, “then I’ll huff and I’ll puff and I’ll blow your house down.”

January 23rd, 2009

You Look Great In that Apron

Anyone who knows me knows that I like to cook. And movies with things that explode. If you had to describe me as succinctly as possible, the word that would work best is “paradox.”

I like target shooting but can (and have) sewn my daughter’s torn stuffed animal. I could burn an afternoon playing a computer game but could do the same organizing the closet to make it more efficient. I can be sweet and lovable and in the next breath invoke The Look that causes fear in most land-based mammals (so I’ve been told).

Where I’m going with this “I like long walks on the beach” talk is how it relates to a completely forgettable and common event that happened a few weeks ago that got me to thinking.

One Saturday Shannon was getting her hair done and I was home with the kids. Since I had already built everything possible with the boy’s Legos and the kids were bored I figured I’d take them to the grocery store. So I load them up and head off.

While I’m there I run into a neighbor who’s there with her kid. She stops by and says “Hi” and we chat for a few minutes. I think nothing of it and go about my business.

A few weeks later the neighbor sees my wife and comments that she saw me in the grocery and was “impressed” that I was there with two kids. Really.

Superdad at the store with the kids (note the cape)

Superdad at the store with the kid (note the cape)

I started thinking about that and realized how that’s just a little off. Now don’t get me wrong. She didn’t say or do anything wrong and I’m certainly not put off at the compliment she gave me. But a few things popped in my mind.

Guys, could you see if you’re at the office and this new team member who happens to be a woman completes the weekly status report? She does a great job and you stop by to tell her what a good job she did, I mean, because she’s a woman?

Besides the threatened mommy-types worried that a guy can take care of crumbsnatchers, the dudes have to share the blame too. They act incompetent on purpose to avoid work. They’ll argue with some guy who spills their beer or craps on their favorite sports team, but if it’s a toddler all bets are off. They’re just kids. Pul-leeze. I’ve seen guys standing around with blank stares when their kids are crying. I mean, seriously. And from some guys I’ve witnessed their thought patterns and reasoning ability are closer than they think. They should be able to relate.


Dudes – two things you need to have at all times. Band-aids and candy. You should put Band-aids in your wallet equal to your kids x 2. Times two because as soon as one of the kids sees the other one with a band-aid, they’ll do a header off the end of the shopping cart so they can have one too. And it’s x2 because when you get home that night and have a beer you’ll forget all about that you used up some band-aids that day.

When it comes to band-aids it could be a microscopic scratch or a compound fracture but a band-aid makes it all better. No amount of reasoning will help that kid understand that the red line they think is a major injury and “blooding!” is actually a pen mark, but you slap a band-aid on them with Spiderman or Hello Kitty staring up at them, all in the world is right again. And if that doesn’t work you go to your backup. Candy.

In your car you need a bag of individually wrapped Life-Savers. They don’t melt, spoil or stink up the leather. They don’t want to leave Chuck-E-Cheese? Candy. You want quiet on the way home? Candy. You ran out of band-aids? Candy. You don’t feel like getting the remote? Candy. If something happens and you’re not sure how to calm them down, just grab those Life-Savers. You didn’t think they got that name because of how they’re shaped, did you?


Well, now I’m out of time for today’s rant. I have to get the arts and crafts ready for the kids tomorrow. We’re making a Salt Clay Dough that we’ll paint when they’re cool. And then I’m going target shooting.

January 22nd, 2009

Hugs All Over

William: Mommy, I think my underwear *really* love me.

Mommy: Ya? Why do you think that, sweetie?

William: Because they hug me even tighter than I hug you.

Guess it’s time to buy the boy new undies. Sorry Son.

January 10th, 2009

Careful What You Wish For…

I’m sure everyone has heard that saying before. Maybe even experienced it personally. Well, I did. And while most times that saying has a negative connotation, I couldn’t be happier.



Axis and Allies: War at Sea

Axis and Allies: War at Sea

Anyone who knows me knows I love to play games. Strategy games in particular and military history is bit a of side hobby for me. A few years back a game called Axis & Allies: War at Sea was released. It’s a table-top game that has miniature boats you move around the board and roll dice to see if you hit and sink your opponent’s ships. If you glance at the ship description and stat card below you can see the various information you need to know like speed, armor, range and damage. Not a bad game and you can play a session in about 30 minutes.



Sample Stat Card

Thing is with gaming it’s hard to find players. Especially players who are willing to play me in strategy games. While I might be slightly above average, I’m not the best. Just about everyone I ask to play says “No way man, you’ll wipe me out!” Of course I try to explain to them that stomping the crap out of them once is no fun for me. I’d rather take my time and let them learn and enjoy the game. Once they learn the ropes then we can really go at it. Even then, people still rarely play me.







William is turning 6 in February I won’t deny it that I’ve been carefully grooming him to be a gamer since he could talk. When he was four I made up a game called “Dinosaurs and Army Men” for us to play. It was fun since the object was to move your figures to the center of the board and steal the treasure chest. You rolled a die to move and then another to attack each other. It was especially cool because you got to wear either a set of horns or dogtags depending on who you played. That was an especial attraction for him and he still asks about the game from time to time.

We’ve been playing a lot of games the past couple of days and we’ve both enjoyed it immensely. Katie has been “getting” to stay home and watch TV and eat ice cream because of her tonsillectomy. Even while you try to explain it he doesn’t quite understand while he can’t too. So I took him out to eat, just the two of us and let him pick. He picked Plucker’s (with no coaching from me) and we had a great time. I brought Trouble, one of his favorite games. So we played Trouble while eating wings and fries and glancing at the BCS Championship pre-game that was playing.



I suggested to him on the way home we play one of my games and that he might like it. So on Friday we ate dinner, did our chores and setup a game of Axis and Allies. I let him pick his 3 ships and then based on his choices I constructed a similar strength fleet. He played Japan and took the battleship Yamato, the cruiser Tone and the destroyer Yukikaze. I took German (yes, I know they were allies) that consisted of the battleship Bismark, battleship Scharnhorst, and destroyer Koln. His fleet strength was rated at 105 compared to my 102. Perfect layout.

Williams Ships, the Yamato, Tone and Yukikaze

Williams Ships, the Yamato, Tone and Yukikaze

Daddys Ships, the Bismark, Scharnhost and Koln

Daddy's Ships, the Bismark, Scharnhorst and Koln



We setup the map displayed below and he put the Yamato on the top left. I then placed my destroyer on the bottom left and grouped my battleships on the bottom right. My goal was to close with his cruiser and destroyer with my battleships on the right while screening the destroyer from the Yamato with the islands. Needless to say, it didn’t quite work. He did move the Yamato down to the destroyer, but the islands didn’t provide enough cover and he destroyed it with one salvo. I didn’t think much of it since it was just a 12 point destroyer.



Map Layout

Map Layout

As for his cruiser and destroyer he never took my bait. He was smart enough to keep them hidden by the islands on the far right and moved the Yamato back into play. He was able to move within a range of 2 and close with the battleship Schamhorst. I was able to attack first but rolled horribly while he returned fire and scored 17 hits, enough to destroy the Scharnhorst outright. Right about now I realized that the game was over.












I pulled the Bismark to the far right in the hopes of taking some of his ships with me (I hadn’t sunk anything at this point) and again he didn’t bite. He knew to hide his smaller ships behind the large island while he moved the Yamato into position. Skipping to the exciting ending, I was able to sink his cruiser and destroyer and actually scored a few hits on the Yamato, but at this point the Bismark had sustained 3 hits and wasn’t looking too good. The game ended when the Yamato scored another massive attack with enough damage to immediately sink the Bismark.



William Learning All Too Quickly

William Learning All Too Quickly

So he won, and quite well. I was honestly impressed. While he didn’t know about the range of his ships or their special abilities he displayed an intuitive grasp of tactics. We’ll play more I’m sure (he’s already asked again) and I’ll see if it was a fluke or he really has a knack for it. I specifically didn’t let him win and I committed one of the more egregious errors in strategy, under estimating your opponent. He deserved to win and did a great job. And while I lost this game, I’m going to be the ultimate winner with a great friend and game player for years to come.

January 7th, 2009

10 Minute Tonsillectomy!

We got up at 5:30 this morning to get ready before the kids. Our friends Linda & Mike were nice enough to let us drop William off at 6:15 and walk him to school for us. (Thank you!)

Waiting with Cartoons

We arrived at Strictly Pediatrics Surgery Center at 7am for check-in. Katie watched cartoons & colored while we waited. After some processing and form signing, they took her back for her bubble gum flavored mask at about 2 minutes ’til 8. They then moved Chris & me to her recovery room to wait.

We were told it would be about a 30 minute procedure, so I went to the ladies’ room & then to pick up something quickly for her in the gift shop. Chris called me at 8:10 to say, “hurry back. They’re done! Dr. Zapalac is here.” I promptly paid for a pink poodle Webkinz, looked at my watch & exclaimed, “a 10 minute tonsillectomy!?!?!”

He said she did great! Her tonsils were HUGE. Her ears were clear so no need to put new tubes in them. Her adenoids had not returned (apparently they can regrow.. didn’t know that).

Out of Surgery

She came out to us about 8:40, looked tired but no crying. She ate a purple Popsicle & drank some grape powerade. She’s now watching “The Grinch”, talking & getting a little groggy. She’s doing great!

Eating Grape Popsicle

New Webkinz "FiFi"

 

 

We should be able to out process at about 10am & head home. They said the pain may hit more once she gets home… so keep ontop of her Tylenol with codeine.

We are so proud of our little trooper! Poor thing with her foot fractures & tonsillectomy is having a rough start to the year. But she’s handling it like a pro!

January 2nd, 2009

Lil’ Chef

As any parent knows, you have a lot of responsibilities when it comes to your children.  And we’re not talking about the important things like playing with their toys while they’re sleeping or eating their candy when they’re not looking.   One of the the most important skills you can teach your kids is how to cook.  The sooner they’re making dinner the sooner you don’t have to.  And when you’re old and they’re caring for you hopefully they’ve become decent a chef so you’re not eating burnt toast in your final days.



Checking To See If It's Ready

Checking To See If It's Ready

Katie has taken to placing her breakfast orders just before bed.  Last night she requested french toast with syrup and sugar on top. I figured this was a good time for William to further practice his cooking skills.  After the necessary explanation that the stove is dangerous and you never use it by yourself, etc, we got started.  William did just about everything.  He cracked all the eggs, each into cup to check for shells and then into the bowl.  3 eggs later he measured and added 2 tbsp of honey and then 1/4 cup of half & half.  I gave him a wisk for him to combine and then we were ready for the bread.  We got out the cooling rack and then soaked each piece of bread and laid them onto the rack while we got the skillet ready.



Getting Katie's Ready

Getting Katie's Ready

He turned the stove onto medium heat and then added each piece of bread (I used the PAM to coat the pan).  With a towel hanging off one shoulder to wipe off his hands as needed, he slowly cooked all four slices to a perfect golden brown.  The whole thing went without a problem.  He did accidentally bump the edge of the pan when flipping one but it wasn’t a bad burn.  No marks, singed skin or lasting damage.  Just about right to remind him to be careful in the future, pay attention, and respect the stove when cooking.


So here’s the photo of the final product with the proud chef.  Katie thanked him and said it was yummy.  At least now I’ve documented one of the times when they’re sweet and kind to each other.

Happy Chef